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how to craft an artisan healing (part 1)

how to craft an artisan healing (part 1)

Tiny acts of intention matter inside us at times when we feel like our season has been handed to us like a deli number.
(Disclaimer; you may get hungry reading this. Best bring a snack.)

You know I’m here for you, right?

You know I’m here for you, right?

In friendship there’s no engagement ring. No friendship Facebook status – “in a relationship” or “it’s complicated”! But we know when someone has decided to obligate to us when she comes to the funeral, when she knows when you were born, when she knows your coffee order, or when she flat out tells you, “you know I’m here for you right?”

Can we sit with the silence?

Can we sit with the silence?

Leaving room in relationships for the important middle place we need to cross through on the way to answers is not intramural friendship – it’s master’s level. So give yourself space to be a rookie.

So, how did it end?

So, how did it end?

This usually comes up when a corner of a pivot story sticks out and trips you. On some level you already know that the two of you are arranging the furniture around it. There’s a piece of your history or hers that you skinny by strategically. You don’t want to be the one to expose that you have this in your past, or she thinks you’ll judge her.

As with a facedown cake, you can make certain assumptions. But unlike a facedown cake, there are witnesses. Ask for the story.